The Best Qualities in a Mate | Alexa Darling

We all hope to spend the rest our lives with one person, and the idea of staying in love with someone has a lot to do with their qualities and what that person can bring to the table. There is no such thing as the perfect partner, but the ideal partner can be found in someone who has developed themselves in a certain way that brings positivity and makes the relationship flow effortlessly.

I hope these qualities that I am about to mention help you find the right person for you

These are excellent qualities in a partner:

Openness: The ideal partner is open and able to express themselves. There is absolutely anything wrong with being vulnerable, sharing your thoughts, expressing how you feel and being transparent. Being with someone who is transparent, helps everything flow. I personally believe that when you are completely open with your partner from day one, you find balance and usually makes the relationship last longer simply because you already know what type of person you are dealing with.

Maturity: Maturity is not defined by age. You could be dating someone who is 40 with the mindset of a 20 year old, or someone who is 25 with the mindset of a 45 year old. To be mature means to be able to recognize when you’re wrong, when you’ve hurt someone’s feelings and you’re willing to readjust yourself to be better and change your toxic behavior. The ideal partner knows how to handle situations in a healthy way and is always willing to recognize that things won’t always be great. Ideally, finding a partner with this quality improves the chances of building a solid relationship.

Thoughtfulness : Someone who thinks outside the box and goes above and beyond for their partner is appreciated. They show their love and appreciation for their mate with their attentiveness and attention. Of course, this will also make both partners happy and create a healthy relationship.

Respect: Ideal partners value each other’s interests and desires. Respect comes a long way in a relationship and this goes from learning how to talk to your mate to respecting them when he/she is not around. Respecting our partners allow us to really know them as separate people and understanding who they are.

Sense of Humor: Who doesn’t want someone with a good sense of humor? The ideal partner has to be your best friend, someone who has the ability to make you laugh when you’re having a tough day. A good sense of humor definitely makes things easier when things get tense in a relationship. Being able to laugh at ourselves makes things much easier. Can I get an AMEN?! — it‘s amazing when you can laugh with the person close to you.

Affection: The ideal partner is affectionate physically, emotionally and verbally. Being with someone who is open to delivering affection is an amazing feeling and it should be shared both ways.

What are other qualities for the right mate?

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